The "grease" you are referring to is (or should be) a food-grade silicon lubricant used to keep the O-ring seal from wearing out and to improve the seal. This lubricant is used on many water filters including the MSR Sweetwater that I use. It is not water-soluble, is tasteless and should be left where it is; the system will not work as well, or as long, without it.
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