Stand your ground, and tell them thatyou need your solo time. Your the one gettng married not them. If either one of them is then they will understand. If they are not then explain to them that your are signing a contract to never have peace and quite again and more often then not you will look for an excuse to go bping and thats when you can use them as the excuse that they want to take you out bping. <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />