If you were a lone female far out into the woods, and someone first asked if you were hiking alone, and then asked where you were going, I can easily see how this would create anxiety.

Better wait for the information to be offered. Frankly, when I meet someone on the trail, I am much more interested in the conditions where they have been than I am in where they are going.
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