None of those nets are light. Anything under 200 dollars is going to be heavy. This is the lightweight forum btw. Lighter tents are more expensive because companies use lightweight material that is more expensive. Check out the Big Agnes Flycreek 2 or some of the Tarptents. You are going to pay more than 200. If you just have to be cheap buy two eureka solataires, seam seal the hell out of it and make your girlfriend carry her own tent