All my gear is lighter than what you list I believe. I'm at UL status and can be quite comfortable. I have no mortgage or car payment. I collect stoves, so my credit card bill plus utilities is all I have. I've upgraded to much cuben fiber gear. We'll see how long it lasts or keeps me dry, the latest item a ZPacks Solplex shelter. My pack and shelter are half your weight and will be fine in the rain or with carrying a weeks worth of gear and food, plus some water. (mid 20's or so in weight) For weekend trips, I'll bring a couple stoves at least, since that is what I collect. On my vacations, if possible, I'll have a alcohol stove since it is so light, not fast, but I'm not in a hurry.
Duane