My pendulum has swung back and forth and have found a nice balance with a 10 lb base weight. I carry a moderately heavy pad, 20 oz because I really value a good nights sleep. Also I carry a small packable pillow from goose feet gear. It really is an individual thing, so many try and compare their gear set up with someone else's when really there are too many variables. I want to as light as possible without sacrificing comfort, safety, durability. Others have different priorities, and that's fine as long as it works for you. I remember when everyone's pack weighed 40-50 lbs, and we all got by. There was times when I had to ask myself why am I doing this? Now it's so much more enjoyable being lighter, less tired, less sore, and probably even more comfortable than before. Much of the excess weight was junk I didn't need.
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The wind wont howl if the wind don't break.