Ok, thanks folks.

I knew I'd have to buy two mattresses, because I take up some room. ;-) I may get a short for me and a regular for her, and then if I want to take the regular out for whatever reason on a solo trip I can. I highly doubt she'll be ok with a short pad, at least not at first.

I'm trying to ease her into these sorts of things, lol.

Thanks for the advice. I'll take a look at the BA pads, and if I can test one I will.
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