I understand the "old fashiioned boot" mentality well.

The only thing that stopped me from continuing this mentality was that during my 20 year absence from backpacking, my feet grew too big for my oldfashioned Danner and Asolo boots.

The new boots are "disposable" and there is no more resoling to make them last a lifetime. Those days are pretty much over and gone for those who cannot afford custom handmade boots.

Having worn id height boots, and actually watched what happens around the ankle when going uphill, the "ankle support" argument clearly seems overstated. Higher boots, maybe there is "support".

I see that you are asking for "modern" weight and "old fashioned" performance - such as "waterproof" along with lightweight.

I agree with others here, that Goretex for boots is highly overrated. Thy make great sweat boxes, and poor boots.

I do, actually, understand your dismay at having to change viewpoint in order to get a new pair of boots. I do also wish you luck in filling your desires.