I agree with Bearpaw for the most part. However, to the OP or anyone who asks a question-you aren't always going to get the answer you want to hear. Not all ideas proposed here are good ones and there is no shortage of members, me included, who are not shy about pointing that out.

Perhaps we should have a moratorium on discouraging people from doing whatever they want, no matter how crazy it sounds.

Given that we rarely, if ever, actually know the person asking the question, why care at all if they do something ill advised and suffer the consequences? I have been pondering that lately and may just decide to not spend any more time trying to save strangers from themselves.

Maybe we should just say "well, good luck with that" and leave it at that.