Im always amazed at the subjectivity of backpacking preferences. I have never needed a pot, plate or otherwise. A mug and long spoon is all I ever use. I do a lot of freeze dried meals now that the selection is so large and they are getting really good (although you still need to bring spices). I bring a couple freeze dried food bags and reuse them. Everyone has their luxury items though, kitchen ware is not on my list.