What is your budget?

I don't find your bag overly heavy (mine is 29 oz and my base weight is under 14 pounds with my 2-person tent). Your pad is pretty heavy. Even the heavy ones I had gotten first were only 24 oz. Now I use Neoair Xlite large (for the width) which is a bit over 15 oz I think so that would save you a pound.

The tent is where you can make the biggest gain. Assuming you can't manage a tarp, a tarptent would likely be your best bet or one of the lighter ones from Big Agnes. If money isn't an issue, a cuben one (see Zpacks for example) would be the lightest but they are very pricy.

I'm curious what all else you are carrying. Your 3 items here are about 9 pounds and your total is over 30. My 3 items are < 6 (about 3.5 < you) yet my total is < half of your's??? What are you including in your total?