Bill, first off, you know I live out west. Most of the time, and most of the places I go allow fires. So, this is not a dis on fires, and has nothing to do with their use in recreational activities.

However, when talking about safety, I think fires should be a luxury. The most difficult situation to light a fire is also the most dangerous to be in, ie, cold and wet. If you are drenched to the bone and all the wood around you is soaked...you have a small chance to light a fire and get warm. It is more responsible to have another plan.
Of course, you should still have a backup plan of a fire. I try and practice lighting a fire with wet wood, and also carry several means of starting a fire.
But, sometimes Murphy just doesn't like me!