Well, for sure every single one of them want the help. But they don't want the kind of help that makes them change their minds, or do any actual thinking or work.

It's like the eternal question of what pack should I get? They don't like "it depends." It really does, but they don't care... there should be a single answer that they can just be told, and then they'll get it and be done with it.

You can't tell who's going to waste it until they show up with a 70 lb pack complete with bear spray and a chair.
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