Hmmmm....it would mean tossing whatever kitchen you have now, but have you looked at the Jetboil products? The insulating cozy on the pot really seems to work in mug mode, the sipping lid is nice, it definitely holds both canister and stove, you can store a small pack towel in the measuring cup, and the spoon fits either in an elastic loop or through the holes in the handle. And, you can use it as your full kitchen, too, if you're making simple meals.

After a lot of initial skepticism, I finally gave one a try and am now thoroughly in love with mine. It's like someone watched me cook, and designed a kitchen to fit.