I agree with Daisy. YOu went with the wrong people. Decisions (and the decision making process) should be a mutually acceptable and joint venture...And hiking in the woods in winter should be something you do together, not simultaneously in more or less the same area.

Find soembody who wants to hike with you, instead of just wanting to hike near you.
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