everyone tried to help, by asking for further details. You did not provide any of those details, nor any specifics on the gear you were taking, so no advice could be given. If this vagueness on your parts means that other people are "assholes" you truly have a convoluted handle on reality.

You asked for help, but ignored the questions directed back to you, then complained that people aren't helpful...do you recognize the folly in this?