i was browsing backcountry's website last night and got an "im" from a sales person. they were pitching a 4k ci pack or better for out to a three day with the tent sizing i was looking at. she was very helpful in finding the thermorest i think i'm going to get.

The Contrail for a tent
argon 70 pack
Thermo-rest Trail Lite pad
Katadyn Hiker filter

she recommended the Therm-a-rest tech blanket but i can't find any tech specs on how small it compresses. I'm leaning more towards the marmot trestles bag or the Kelty Fleece

ETA: just did the math. i'm now over $600 just to get up and running. no one tell the wife. this is for my get away gear as it is.