I've been feeling that a lot lately - without my noticing it coming up, my son is finishing secondary school - he's doing his final exams now. He's big, nearly bearded, deeper voice than mine, bigger feet ... I've spent much of the last 15 years at work - 60 hour weeks were standard and 90+ not unusual. His school has a web portal and I realised that I'd never actually logged onto it ... I relied on my wife to let me know what was going on. We went to the last school concert and the last Mass, his year's Valete day presentations and services. He sang in the choir, and sang a solo. Next year he'll probably be at Uni. Time flies.