I'll let someone who is more of an engineer address the issues of tubular vs. bar vs. other frame materials.

Buy the pack that fits you. That's the first key.

Pack the heavy stuff close up against your back and low in the pack. That way it puts less stress on your shoulders, and allows your hips to manage most of the weight.
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