Ok, so I should be good with the 4mm rated at 1,034 lbs. Good, that's within my budget. These are the two months all of our local school taxes, home and auto insurance, and income taxes are due. Takes a couple more months to get back to sanity.
Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intent of arriving safely in a well preserved body, but to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, worn out, and loudly proclaiming Wow! What a Ride!