The biggest space taker upper in a novice's pack is the sleeping bag. The reason most experienced backpackers can fit a lot of gear in a small pack is because they buy the nice sleeping bags that compress really well. Even a cheap down bag compresses really well. After that comes clothes, food/kitchen, and shelter. The smaller you make all those, the less room you need.
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