Thanks for tips. But we can't afford to rent gear and then buy gear. I already purchased almost everything.
Got Kelty Ignite 0F DriDown bags for wife and son and I got the 20F one.
Bought a Kelty Tent already and my wife a Gregory Deva pack. Getting my son a Gregory Wander 50 or a Osprey Ace 48 and I'll get something decent off Ebay with what we have left.

lol...I'm more than 100% sold on this (not sure where you'd get that I'm not). We're an outdoorsy family that loved going car camping at state parks every year a few times a year back in Iowa. We've been Dreaming of camping in the mountains for atleast 20 years (well I have atleast, lol).