I don't want ya'll to think I do all the cooking, because I don't.

The boys plan their own menus (with a little coaching) and cook their meals. If they want to try something new, I'll show them how to do it.

Before long, they're doing it without much coaching from me.
The older boys teach the younger ones. Some pick it up, and some don't.
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If you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you can't. Either way, you're right.