You said,

"I had women fighting me for my cowboy camp coffee a couple weeks ago, at a youth campout. It's quite good."

It's not the coffee, dude, it's the hat and the boots.

I have settled on the 6 oz. REI Thermo Mug and the 1 oz Mugmate. I trimmed the ears on the Mugmate so it would sit down into the mug another 3/4", down where the water is. I made a little wire hook that folds out of the way. See pics. For really great coffee, 7 oz is worth it.