While I do not have a very wide experience ( although that may describe my backside-glad I can't see my own rear view while riding) with different bike seats, I recently replaced the worn out el cheapo that came on my second hand bike with a Terry women's seat. The improved ventilation alone is great. It felt a bit too firm at first, but either my rear and/or the seat seem to have adapted to each other and are very happy together. I agree with the thigh control comments.