Unfortunately, unless you have the skill, patience, and free time to indulge in making your own gear, you will probably never find your "perfect" any piece of gear. I don't believe I have any gear that exactly meets my preferences. Some have features I never use (but can't bring myself to cut off), or have all but one or two of my "want list" items. In the end, you prioritize your wants, and get the item that comes closest - and it's amazing how quickly the missing or extra items fade into the dim mists of memory.